Tying a hanfu skirt is the first practical obstacle for most new wearers — and the instructions that come with the garment are usually minimal. This guide covers the two most common types: the horse-face skirt (mamian qun), which wraps and closes with ties, and the ruqun skirt, which is tied at the waist or under the bust.
Before you start
- Check the overlap direction. For living wear, the left panel crosses over the right. Right over left is associated with burial dress — get this right.
- Find the inner tie. Most good horse-face skirts have a hidden inner tie or button on the inside of the waistband. It holds the first layer closed while you tie the outer sash.
- Put the skirt on over a top. The skirt wraps around the body, so the top goes on first.
Part 1: How to tie a horse-face skirt (mamian qun)
- Hold the skirt at your waist. Find the flat “horse-face” panels — they should sit at your sides, not at the centre front.
- Bring the front panel across your body and hold it in place against your waist.
- Wrap the back panel over it so the two flat panels sit at your sides and the pleats fall front and back. The panels overlap rather than meeting edge to edge.
- Fasten the inner tie. If your skirt has an inner button or tie, close it now — this stops the overlap from slipping while you tie the outer sash.
- Tie the outer sash around the waistband. Pull it snug but not tight; the sash distributes tension around your waist rather than at one point.
- Check the panels. The flat panels must be at your sides. If they are at the front, the skirt is inside out — unwrap and reverse it.
Two ways to tie the sash
- Single knot at the front. The simplest and most secure. Tuck the ends in or let them hang.
- Double wrap with a side knot. Wrap the sash twice around the waist for more support, then tie at one side. This works better for heavier skirts.
Part 2: How to tie a ruqun skirt
- Waist-high ruqun: place the skirt at your natural waist, bring the ties around to the front and tie a firm double knot. Tuck the ends in.
- Chest-high ruqun (qixiong): the tie sits under the bust. Hold the skirt high, wrap the ties around your back, cross them and bring them forward, then tie at the front. The cross at the back stops the tie sliding down.
- Check the length. The hem should clear the floor by 2–3 cm. If it drags, the skirt is sitting too low.
Troubleshooting
The skirt keeps slipping
- The waistband may be too loose. Tighten the sash, or use a wider sash — a wide sash distributes tension and grips better than a narrow ribbon.
- Check whether the inner tie is fastened. Most slipping happens because the inner layer was never closed.
- Silk and satin waistbands slip more than cotton or linen. A small safety pin at the overlap point solves it.
The panels end up at the front
The skirt is inside out. Unwrap it fully and reverse the front and back before wrapping again.
The sash digs in
You are tying it too tight. A hanfu skirt is held by the waistband sitting on your hips, not by the sash compressing your waist. Loosen the sash and let the waistband rest on your natural waist.
The hem is too long
- Raise the waistband by 2–3 cm.
- Wear boots to close the gap.
- Have the hem taken up — most tailors can do this in a day.
How to make it look better
- Match the sash to the outfit — a contrasting colour reads as deliberate, a matching one reads as invisible.
- Keep the knot small at the front; large bows look costumed.
- Smooth the pleats with your hands after tying, so they hang evenly.
- Check in a mirror from the side — that is where an uneven wrap shows.
Frequently asked questions
Which way does a hanfu skirt overlap?
For living wear the left panel crosses over the right. Right over left is reserved for burial dress.
Do I need a sash, or can I just tie the skirt?
Most horse-face skirts have their own ties. A separate sash is optional but adds security and colour. Ruqun skirts are usually tied with their own ties.
Can I wear a hanfu skirt without a hanfu top?
Yes. A horse-face skirt works well with a plain t-shirt or knit sweater — see our styling guide.
How do I stop the skirt from dragging on stairs?
Gather the front panel slightly and hold it as you climb, or choose a mid-calf length for daily wear.
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